Coach vs. Coach

A lot of people call themselves coaches or trainers however seeing a person coach or train is a totally different story. The action of coaching is what makes a person a coach, not just because they call themselves it. It doesn't matter if it is fitness or sports or even life, some action has to be taken by the coach to coach. However it seems that we can get lost along the way and that a title is more important than the action. I have been spoiled in the fast of I have been taught to coach on many different topics. Was I good at it whatever I was coaching at first? probably not, but I had a coach supervising that coached me on how to get better. This coaching helped me become a better coach whether it be swimming, strength and conditioning or other topics.

If we as coaches don't coach our clients and athletes we are doing them a disservice. We are not educating them on what they need to improve on and we are not doing our jobs to make them better. Coaches coach not babysit.

So go coach to be a coach.

backwards to go forwards

As much as I have not wanted to have surgery in the past to fix the SLAP tear in my shoulder, it is time to get it taken care of. I may not be looking forward to 6 weeks of my dominant arm in a sling but in the long run if I am able to throw without pain again and even possibly get back into the pool again I am ready to do so.

Going backwards to go forwards isn't something that most people like to do, I know I don't but I need to, and it is frustrating because we all have an ego that doesn't want to go back to that beginner or novice level, no matter what the situation. However, in my case this scenario provides (forces) me opportunities to learn how to do things with my right arm. I may even try and teach myself how to write right handed giving me a shot to write legibly for once in my life.

When you have to regress to go forwards realize that it provides great learning opportunities that you might not have been forced to do before. Don't take a narrow frame to the situation and realize that going backwards before you go forwards is the direction you need to go.

Why not you?

A question  I have asked myself many times is why is there a disconnect between the people who innovate and become an entrepreneur and others who sit by and watch the world go by as they punch in and out at their 9-5 job?

What gives some people the right or gall to start something and what causes others to not launch on anything they want to do and only be the coffee shop dreamer?

In a blog post from my former boss Tony Gentilcore, he wrote about personal trainers "getting comfortable with being uncomfortable." I feel that holds a lot of weight and not just with personal trainers. As a person marketing themselves as their own brand has to be comfortable with rejection due to a myriad of factors that can't be taken personally, even though more often then not they are. It can be a tough task to achieve, because being comfortable is well, comfortable. With the age of news feeds and timelines and reader pages attention spans are getting shorter making it more difficult to get staying power in any business.

As far as internet fitness goes I have heard that it is easier for all the new professionals in the industry because of the wide reach that is available and what knowledge is already floating out around the interwebz. From my perspective it is harder because you have all of the information that is available and has been presented and you have to figure out how to get your small piece of usually what is the already small piece we are all going after. It takes extra creativity and passion to be able to find your niche along the way but it can be done.

So go do it. yes, you.

(If you don't someone else will)

"The Magic Box"

I had a first session with a client the other day and on the interest paper it read "searching for the magic box."  I thought to myself keep looking and let me know when you find it. I met with the client and while we were talking about how to reach the realistic goals we were setting again they mentioned "I want that magic box."  I told them "me too, I would be a 6'4" 250 middle linebacker in the NFL if I had that magic box. But as much as we wish for it, it isn't realistic. It takes a good amount of effort to get even the smallest goal achieved.

Unfortunately I still find myself occasionally searching for that elusive magic box in the ways of burying myself in books that I may find the secret  and shortcut to whatever it is I am looking for. I laugh when I realize I am doing it, whether I am trying to figure out the ins and outs of economics and finance, because I have no formal background in it, or looking for the next research study or therapy book to learn from and pull new information out of it.

While searching for this magic box I have realized I have had it all along and all that I learn through formal education, informal education and interaction are different tools that fit into the box that make it magical. Some of the information will be more important at different times, and some of it won't fit until a specific time or place. However, it all helps along the way.

So when you find yourself looking for the magic box realize that you already have it and you just need to pull the right tool from it. The answer might not be right in front of your face, or at the top of the box, but make the effort to find the right tool for the situation and it will work out.

Art, and the fun doing it

I have had more time on my hands recently. It is time to use that time productively and get some writing done.

This morning I finished The Icarus Decpetion, Seth Godin's latest book and it was time for me to suck it up and finish it, I bought it in January. I usually breeze through his works and really enjoy reading them. It was a bigger factor that it took me a longer time to get the book back off the shelf and finish it. Life has been interesting for me in the past few months with multiple waves of instability and being unsure thrown my way.

The sum substance of the book is to make art, and make it well, if it isn't clicking with an audience, find a different one and make better art. There lies my problem. I have been complacent without making art, therefore regretting the opportunities not taken. It is time to start again making the art and realize the journey and process is the fun of it.

Art isnt your typical paintings or drawings (however in my case part of my art is my black and white ink drawings) but it is doing the work that you love to do and putting the effort in to care about the work. When I give myself a chance to reflect on the art I can make everyday I realize how important the art is and what can be done to make a difference no matter what size.